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It Lives!
Just in case you were wondering…I’m still alive. I spent the latter part of December enjoying my children and family, doing holiday activities, watching Netflix and sleeping a lot. I’ve dubbed 2013 the...
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Gun-shy
I find myself in a curious place. I’m not in a lonely, sobbing little heap anymore. I still have plenty of times when I’m blue or lonely, but I no longer feel my life is a downward spiral of hopeless...
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The Zombie Apocolypse & FWB
At 5 a.m. Sunday morning, my bedroom ceiling collapsed. Obviously, I’m still alive; I managed to vacate the room 30 minutes before it happened. It was traumatic and I’m now coping with the nightmare...
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Sober After Five Months
Today, I visited the Facebook page of my former lover, the sex addict. In doing so, I discovered he is, as of yesterday, “in a relationship”. This is the man that as of the beginning of October told me...
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The Walking Dead, Cutting Ties and Another Man’s Baby
Soooo…the last month…well, I’ll be glad to see April and pray it’s better than March. For any fans of the Walking Dead, I will admit that I hated the latest episode. It reminded me of all the reasons I...
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Melancholy Mermaid
Seven years ago, I took what would prove to be a momentous trip. In the middle of a deep depression, the collapse of my marriage and the unrelenting arguments between my husband and myself, I knew I...
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Speed Dating & The Lure of the Brits
Last month I hit somewhat of a milestone and entered my 4th decade. It was without much fuss; a quiet celebration with family and lots of well-wishes from friends. I can’t say I turned 40 with complete...
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Ambivalent Daters
Lately I’ve been running into something which, while not new, still confuses the hell out of me every time it happens. Men who say they want to date, but don’t really want to date. Men who make a big...
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My Lock Is Getting Rusty
I went to a cool idea for a singles party the other night. All the women were given locks and the men were given keys, with the “icebreaker” being that they had to try to find the person who unlocked...
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Holding Out For My Fuck Yes
I recently read an article that stripped away a lot of bullshit from my views of dating and relationships. Basically, all choices boil down to either a “fuck yes” or a “fuck no”. Whether it’s a casual...
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When People Show You Who They Are, Believe Them
I was having a conversation with someone the other day and she said something I thought was very profound: “When people show you who they are, believe them.” One of my recent posts was about intuition...
View ArticleConversations with Myself (Why I Am Ridiculous)
It’s been over a month since I spoke to J, the man who made me feel like a giddy teenager for an intense two months, then professed to me he was a sex addict that needed to go into treatment. It was...
View ArticleThe Power of Intuition
I’ve always had a gift for reading people. Since I was young, I could size people up quickly. I could hear inflections in their voice, see quick glimpses of expression and observe subtle body language...
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